Senior Column: McKenzie Swanson

There once was a time where I thought being the middle child was the worst thing that could ever happen to a kid. Constantly receiving hand-me-downs from my sister and sharing a bedroom and then a bathroom with my brother was not the luxurious childhood I had in mind.

Everything was glorious until the youngest came along (sorry Conner). I never had to share my room and my sister was stuck playing with me everyday. But then, a little baby boy was born into the Swanson family, a day that I can barely remember — but a day that changed my life forever.

I soon became the epitome of a stereotypical “middle child”.  I only had 16 months of a crib, my own toys and my parents’ full attention. Being the middle child, I felt overlooked and somewhat cheated.

It may sound like I’m bitter, but I’m not. I know my parents love me, and I’ll admit it — I am spoiled. After growing up, I see that being in the middle is not a bad thing after all. I failed to recognize the positive qualities I gained from my brother and sister, and I have never thanked them for it.

Paige: being the oldest and somewhat of a hardass, you were always brutally honest with me telling me everything from your (not-so-wanted) opinions on my outfits, to teaching me how have complete confidence in myself. Even though we do fight, you have always wanted the best for me and have been there for me since the beginning. You will always be my first best friend.

Conner: being the youngest and maybe a little too laid back, you taught me how to relax by making me laugh in almost every serious situation. From every sassy remark you’ve made at mom and dad, to how you joke with me in tense situations, you remind me that every bad thing that happens is not going to be the end of the world. I’ve watched you grow up from a little boy into a mature young man and I know you will do great things in life.

Without you two, I would never learn how to stand up for myself and be different, and without you two, I would probably not be writing this right now. Thank you for everything you’ve taught me without even knowing it.

And if you’re a middle like me, just remember we are the lucky ones who get the best of both worlds.